STEREOTYPING IS BAD!

HI dear readers!!

today i'm here to talk about stereotyping- branding somebody something due to common generalization/thinking. (like all chinese are gamblers, all malays are lazy and all indians are drunks). stereotypes are not always true, very hurtful and can damage people's reputation.

Point no.1 i cannot take -oh, all girls who go clubbing are cheap, desperate and wild.

I confess that after the breakup i went thru a period of sudden freedom leading me to try n do so so many new things i have never explored or was not allowed to do as a gf.

Like a bird in a cage suddenly release i didn't quite know how to handle so much freedom. so i went out n ATE , SHOP, LEPAK and PARTIED my happy heart away.

met alot of new friends, discovered so many new pleasures and learn so many new things!

Let me assure u that my often trips to the club are not desperate measures to find a bf or get drunk n hug some stranger to fill the hole of love in my heart. HELL NO! i'm smarter than that. all the girls/guys that go along with me are smarter than that in fact.

 People do things by choice. Maybe some people go clubs to look at pretty girls, get some 1 nite stand, get high on drugs, get high on alcohol, smoke like a choo choo train, dance shake their booty or watever. What ppl do is their freaking choice as almost everybody inside is already a big ass ADULT.

Haha, so many ppl have been asking me recently why i have i become some bad girl who spends her weds/sat nights at these dark "bad" places. they worry i mix with wrong company, get drunk n taken advantage.

ALOHA! i want to tell all you people something that maybe only the closest of friends know-

SANDRA CHEAH HATES TO DRINK!

it doesn't mean i never tasted beer/liquor its just that i hate the way it smells n tastes like cockroach in my mouth. yucks! i'm good with coke most of the time. u will never believe that i have ordered plain water no ice in a CLUB! even the bartender laughed at me! ;P

 i find drinking alcohol, putting liquid posion into the body system, getting drunk n suffering massive hangover is such a dumbass thing to do!! plus my own testimonies of watching frens n random ppl doing shit when drunk is a total turnoff!

My main aim of clubbing is to dance like a madwoman n feel naturally sweaty high, have a rocking good time with my girlfrens,take a million photos, and check out what new fashion other girls are wearing.

 I do not dance with strangers especially guys, never give out my number, never smoked or taken drugs ever! for what do damaging things to my young nice body?! siao ah..

So I've stated my case. Going clubbing doesn't make me or the majority of girls cheap, desperate or wild (much as saying standing in a garage makes u a car!). we just wanna have fun! (in my case clean fun!) . 

I have not changed into a bitch who has forgotten her God, parents, friends or principals in life. I am still the silly old lovable Sandra from the small town of Seremban. I have not forgotten where i come from or where my priorities lie. I will know when to stop going when the time comes.

So, dont be so quick to judge. Remember we all are sinners ok. be the 1st one to throw the stone if ur free of guilt n sin. Thats my 2 cents worth! Cheers!