marriage.
what feelings does it evoke? happiness? fear? uncertainty?
i was looking thru my frens and family wedding pics and started thinking....
every girl dreams of her fairytale wedding..where she will be the beautiful princess and her beloved charming prince will be at the end of the aisle..
and yet...
Leong yew and nicole
Danny & Su yin
may jet & Selwyn
sieh jin & chen may
piano teacher audrey n hubby
nydia and darrel.
i concluded that Marriage is not a child's game.
u cant say " I love u" then wed the person and wake up one day not recognizing the person next to u.
people change in time and situations will never be the same always.
only fools marry thinking its love forever and beds of roses n chocolates.
only fools think that beauty lasts forever together with youth and health.
only fools marry hoping that everyday is fun, all play no worries.
wait till reality sets in.
yr partner grows old, ugly n wrinkled, or stricken by Alzheimer or cancer or paralysis or bankruptcy tor cheats on u then your so secure bubble would burst!
Can u possibly imagine the responsibility and commitment involved?
Marriage the not a problem solver to whatever unhappy shit ur stuck in.
its a
WAKE UP CALL AND A WHOLE NEW SET of problems to solve.
look at ur parents, u think they had it easy? do u think u could handle the stress and quarrels that is gonna come.
Love is tested thru the journey of marriage. and its a long tiresome emotionally draining road.
Dont get married outta blind love rush..the consequences are sometimes too overwhelming to bear.
Not everyone's married is doomed to fail.
Be wise to love, be wise to choose n pray for personal strength to not marry the wrong person n dig ur own grave.
i wish u lots of patience, wisdom and tolerance to all married couples and wanna-be couples as well!
p/s- when is it my turn?
i'm not ready to sacrifice that part of my life yet to such a long time commitment. call me selfish but i aint no fool to rush in man..
hahaha..long more time after i had my share of travelling n foolin around.
currently busy swimming againts wind and tide before settling into the world's wave current...
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